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should I of approached her?
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should I of approached her?
04-28-2018 9:48 PM

I was walking on the sidewalk when I saw a cute girl putting out the rubbish. By the time she said "Hi" and I said "Hi" she was starting to walk down her driveway. My social intelligence isn't that high, that's a no go right?
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04-28-2018 9:56 PM

Always approach I didn’t read the paragraph it’s a rule
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04-28-2018 10:06 PM

(04-28-2018 9:48 PM)alchemist Wrote:  I was walking on the sidewalk when I saw a cute girl putting out the rubbish. By the time she said "Hi" and I said "Hi" she was starting to walk down her driveway. My social intelligence isn't that high, that's a no go right?


From standard society's norms, probably a "no go". If this is in your neighborhood, then a "hi" or "hi hows it going" is good and doesn't push any social boundaries and you have time to build rapport over time as you'll see your neighbor countless times. Very easy to naturally strike up deeper conversation and get to know each other after you've seen each other numerous times already.

But other times, especially if there's a low chanc of seeing that person again, it's good to talk more and push your social interations to help you grow (situational openers are great, like commenting on something interesting she's doing/wearing, or maybe even the weather).
(04-28-2018 9:56 PM)BigDickBandit420 Wrote:  Always approach I didn’t read the paragraph it’s a rule

actually this is probably the better answer lol
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04-28-2018 10:13 PM

This is my problem also, more beautiful girl is harder to aproach. I think we need to change our way of thinking and stop discriminating by their beauty and aproach all without thinking anything sexual.
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04-28-2018 10:31 PM

smirk and say hi next time
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04-28-2018 10:43 PM

Sure follow a girl that said hi to you down her own driveway in the middle of the day, While she is doing her normal routine.

That's not strange or creepy at all.

Edit: my thought would be if she wanted to strike up a conversation she would have stalled a little before she turned to get back into her house.
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04-28-2018 11:38 PM

(04-28-2018 10:43 PM)Saiyanprince Wrote:  Sure follow a girl that said hi to you down her own driveway in the middle of the day, While she is doing her normal routine.

That's not strange or creepy at all.

Edit: my thought would be if she wanted to strike up a conversation she would have stalled a little before she turned to get back into her house.

SaiyanPrince has it exactly right. She's not at a bar where there's a reasonable expectation of approaches, she's doing her daily life. You don't know her, her history, whether she has a husband in the house with a shotgun watching her through the window, whether she's an undercover cop on a stakeout, whatever. Putting garbage out isn't one of the subtle ways women ask for approaches. Don't make her regret trying to be sociable.

Honestly if I was reincarnated as a woman in this world I'd never go anywhere without pepper spray.
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04-29-2018 12:54 AM

Yeah I sensed it was wrong. Should listen to that
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04-29-2018 9:18 AM

One problem with this society is that most people don't communicate. Alot of people don't even talk to their neighbors. Why are people so afraid?

Don't go into any conversation with expectations.

Life is a game, have fun!

Hold onto your beliefs loosely, and hold onto your truths tightly.
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04-29-2018 9:35 AM

I say approach all the way man!

I mean really what do you have to lose but a minute of your time. I had to work really hard on my social skills and it has paid off in every aspect! I am married now, but I have found that a lot of women find a guy that is socially confident very attractive. Sometimes I have found that it is not about being the most attractive physically or wearing the hardest hitting sexual/attraction mix, but actually being just social as this open the door for so much more! I very frequently approach stranger men and women just to give them a compliment or to encourage them and it gets me in trouble a lot with women if I am not careful.

So if anything I encourage you alchemist to get out there and just approach and keep trying and DO NOT lose heart as there will always be some rejection and you have to learn to shrug that off as it will hold you back and just have fun!!!
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