What looks are to men, confidence Is to women. Like when you see a hot woman, you as a man are like i got to have her, same is to women but with confidence in a man, they got to have you.Looks can get you in the door but if you have no confidence, looks do not matter.

"Dad bod" is just them associating that look with the middle-aged, stable, financially well off, confident and (often) married men they desire.

They might want a dad bod 35 year old over a 20 year old gym rat. But they'd take a fit dad over a dad bod dad.

(07-27-2022 3:24 AM)Enjayee Wrote:  "Dad bod" is just them associating that look with the middle-aged, stable, financially well off, confident and (often) married men they desire.

Maybe for some women but I know there are some women who really feel more sexually attracted to a dad bod compared to a fit bod. Maybe those women are somewhat rare but they do exist.

People have a tendency to genialize and think all women think the same. Each woman is an individual with her own preferences and personality.

The more emotionally damaged women and women with low self-esteem/confidence/self-worth go for the fat dad bods.

(07-29-2022 10:10 AM)RTBoss Wrote:  The more emotionally damaged women and women with low self-esteem/confidence/self-worth go for the fat dad bods.

Some women like the feeling of a dad bod better than a fit bod while cuddling.

Whether fit or dad bod fit, developing confidence is a big key. Looks is just one part of the larger equation in attraction albeit I would not undermine it’s importance. In general, take care of yourself, be well groomed, exercise, smell good, and don’t dress like a bum are good habits to follow. I follow the old adage, “Always be ready so you don’t have to get ready,” because the game is usually always on, at least for me, you’ll never know where you would run into something. No matter how you look or what you got, you can always enhance yourself in so many ways and put yourself in the best position to succeed.