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Women and Cops?
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12-07-2017 3:33 PM

Have u thought about doing something significant that u did back then when you's 2 were dating? I wonder if something like that might make him feel that spark again.

Am thinking out loud, so I could be wrong. But could be worth a try.

Something like a significant place, game or a dress u wore or a perfume u wore a certain night, or even a favorite dish you's 2 ate a certain night. Hopefully it'll wake up his memory and make him attracted to u again.
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12-07-2017 3:59 PM

P.S. Also, I wonder if BAGreat's CopulinsX might work better on him. It's basically copulins with a twist, the way I see it thru many reports.

https://copulinsx.com

Good thing about BAGreat is that he sells samples of it too. So ya can check if it's good or not.
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12-07-2017 6:59 PM

His desire may be low which sometimes means that his body is low on dopamine. An amino-acid called L-Tyrosine will help. Maybe add a choline and inositol supplement with it.

He has to want to change.
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12-07-2017 7:31 PM

Yeah. But if you read some of her post, it sounds as if he may be
a mean spirited narcissist with some deep seated issues.

Fixing low desire and t levels, etc might not fix the problem.
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12-07-2017 7:40 PM

(12-07-2017 7:31 PM)Lostdreams Wrote:  Yeah. But if you read some of her post, it sounds as if he may be
a mean spirited narcissist with some deep seated issues.

Fixing low desire and t levels, etc might not fix the problem.




True. The only way to find out is by trying. Smile

Not defending him. But may be he's stressed out about something or someone. Or may be he needs a little spark or a good memory that only he remembers that's associated with MM. I have faith. She'll figure it out I rekon.
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12-07-2017 7:55 PM

(12-07-2017 7:40 PM)DrChocolate Wrote:  True. The only way to find out is by trying. Smile

Not defending him. But may be he's stressed out about something or someone. Or may be he needs a little spark or a good memory that only he remembers that's associated with MM. I have faith. She'll figure it out I rekon.

Yeah ... but it can be hard. Been involved with some narc women in my life.
Really sad in that they get some bent pleasure from other peoples pain.
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12-07-2017 8:18 PM

I have for sure considered all of this. That doesn't mean I don't appreciate the input, I just don't want anyone to think I'm not listening. I definitely am.

He's definitely stressed...me too...I mean I'm over here trying to juggle two special-needs children, endlessly seeking new work from home (freelancing - never a sure thing and stressful as freaking hell), school, the house, and not having any family nearby (my own family).

I do dress in a sexy way day-to-day, not like a whore (sorry! Big Grin ) but I mean, never Mom jeans, never dumpy...ever ever ever. I like tight jeans with a cute tee or a really pretty trendy something-or-other on top. Right now I'm digging shoulderless (it's warm here) and bandage strap tops. I just don't dress "blurgh, I don't care any more", at all.

As for, erm, REALLY dressing, honey please, LOL...come peek in my closet...you'll ALL get excited...it will probably be a party. Do you want the schoolgirl outfit complete with white thigh-highs and saddle shoes or would you prefer the latex?

Still a fat no.

Being quiet. No. Being aggressive. No. Being girly. No. Being womanly. No. Just sitting there. No. Hugs and kisses. No. Waiting on his word. No no no.

It's just always no.

He does have a libido, though. He jerks off so frequently that he just doesn't bother to put the lube away. He keeps it right out there on the bathroom counter, hardly bothers to cap it afterward, it's pretty much a fuck-you to me.

I'm not ugly. I get loads of looks. I'm not flabby. I work out. ;)

He just obviously dislikes me intensely but won't really let me go...the most recent time I tried hard to discuss divorce with him it was all the same stuff and he's right...we can't afford separate households, with the kids. We can't. I will try once more for the open marriage discussion. I CAN NOT understand why he flips out so much against this idea when he doesn't want to touch me. I mean he freaks out. Beyond. I will try again. Gently. I'm too old to dry up and die.

Back to the cops, I have taken some suggestions here and am going to start experimenting, but I really won't have my husband in mind. If only ONE man on the planet earth responds badly to all this stuff I'm not going to run around in circles trying to find the magic key for that magic lock, he can play with his own lock. P Vampire

Thanks again for the awesome suggestions. I hope to try some stuff out so I can be the helper soon rather than just accepting help!
Oops, the trying things from our courting days or whatever suggestion...I actually think that's an awesome idea...I do feel I went backward and tried to act/do/be the way I was then...

Still no but that doesn't mean it will always be no. It is in fact an amazing idea (IMO) in general, for most people. I may just steal it! (For the next time I hear someone worrying that the spark is gone.) It just makes so much sense.
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12-07-2017 8:26 PM

Maybe he’s addicting to porn and/or pleasing himself
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12-07-2017 8:27 PM

I wonder if the jealous treatment will work on him. U know, the same jealous game all humans do. I get attention from her, so she gives me attention for me.

Risky business, but yeah, worth a shot. Smile when u get more attention from other guys, in front of him, he'll surely notice it.

But that's a typical male's P.O.V. I could be wrong when it comes to females. Am not sure. But with a few of me chick mates they done it with success.
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12-07-2017 8:36 PM

(12-07-2017 8:27 PM)DrChocolate Wrote:  I wonder if the jealous treatment will work on him. U know, the same jealous game all humans do. I get attention from her, so she gives me attention for me.

Risky business, but yeah, worth a shot. Smile when u get more attention from other guys, in front of him, he'll surely notice it.

But that's a typical male's P.O.V. I could be wrong when it comes to females. Am not sure. But with a few of me chick mates they done it with success.

It might, if I wanted to try it, but I'll be honest, I am not emotionally invested anymore anywhere near enough to even consider bothering to do something like that.

As for porn, yep, but it blows (oh yar har~ see what I did there?) my mind that anyone would consistently prefer to jerk off instead of having a warm, responsive body right there...calling your name. I mean WTF? But that's just me. Again, something that, after all these years, I no longer have the incentive or motivation to try to discover anymore.

Especially not when there are so many men out there and they're just so *naturally* responsive. It's wonderful, actually. Smile I am biding my time. Smile When you're invested in a marriage and actively closing yourself off at any turn to accepting or feeling anything from anyone else you forget how many absolutely amazing guys are out there, let's hear it for the boys. <3
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