(11-14-2012 12:59 PM)thundr Wrote: Sadly attractiveness of the girl on your arm dictates the quality of girls in the room you can pull.
Words of encouragement for me
(11-14-2012 12:59 PM)thundr Wrote: The eye contact exercise mentioned above is good for practice but you have to take in consideration environment. For example you are challenging. This is not always a good thing to perpetually show dominance. If it happens to be an insecure male you stare down be prepared for what happens.
As a bouncer I used this to acquire the girlfriends of insecure alpha posers.
Dominant eye contact with them until they got a little riled, then I would approach the GF and totally ignore the PA. I continued to refuse to address the PA, instead asking the GF if PA was an asshole and if her would hit her because "he looks like he wants to hit me but he's scared so he might take it out on you when I leave, Does he hit you?" Never failed.
(the rest of the story) now she is under my protection, thrown him out, return and instruct her not to go outside "I'll be right back" while I go get her my shift drink, nice sweet drink like "screaming orgasm", go back and shake her hand while introducing myself HOLD THE HANDSHAKE and place drink in her off hand, before releasing pull up to her ear (it's loud in there) and ask if she likes motorcycles "I get off in 20 mins IS THE DRINK GOOD?"
There are too many concepts tied into this to highlight all, but safe to say I was shot down lots before I tied it all together into a sort of magic spell.
(11-14-2012 12:59 PM)thundr Wrote: I for one cannot stand to be stared at. If I look away casually and you are still drawing a bead on me Im going to say something for sure. What comes out of your mouth will determine how aggressive I get.
I've developed a habit of moving danger close and initiating "Can I ... help you?" with a pause in between I and help, to better control and set their mind racing as to what comes next.
I'm also sure to maintain SOLID eye contact until they stammer a reply and watch their shoulders and stance for telegraphing.
If they say something positive I smile huge and put my hand out to shake and flatten my stance. Negative things are often met with a wagging finger because closes the space, making them cramped and uneasy and putting my strong hand close to the fight.
This is highly situation dependant and not for all places.
(11-14-2012 12:59 PM)thundr Wrote: Constantly staring at people is going to get you hurt.
Thundr is right and you must proceed with caution in this area.
This post ISN'T about me being BillyBadass, I'm not.
This IS about implying dominance with eye contact and body language and some things to be prepared for that you might not see coming.
Stay congruent folks.