A member here has asked me to post this report that she/he, has wrote. It's a really excellent report!
Hello Pherotruth folks. I have asked QuietGuy to post this for me anonymously because I'm a bit squeamish about posting personal details that involve another person. I'll gladly identify myself privately to the mods if they wish me to do so. By the way it's great to have this forum. Thank you to the people who made it happen.
On to the subject. We've all wondered how our pheromones really felt to a person who was unaware of that we were using them. I've recently opened up to my girlfriend about pheromones and the pheromone community. In doing so I gave her some packets of Scent of Eros for Her from Love Scent.
The first evening after we talked about pheromones and I gave her the Scent of Eros for Her, I showered and put on an entire packet of Scent of Eros . I spread it over my wrists, chest, neck, heck those little packets go a long way ya know. I asked her how it smelled. No surprise, she loved the smell although she said she liked my regular cologne better. I took a packet of her Scent of Eros and put some on her neck and arms and we climbed into bed. Now I can't really say that things were really different because of possible placebo effects but we had a really good time. Smile
The next morning she commented on how we had snuggled all night and that she had really enjoyed the smell of the Scent of Eros on me. I gotta admit that I had really paid very little attention to how her Scent of Eros had made me feel, but I do know that the feelings I had that night were very natural feelings of closeness and not being able to get enough of having her next to me. I decided not to wear any pheromones that night and we didn't talk any further about them.
That evening we had planned to watch a DVD movie or two and just hang out after a late supper. She showered while I got the DVD ready. I had already showered while she was cooking supper and was wearing the cologne she had mentioned the night before as being her fave. She joined me in front of the TV and snuggled up. While the movie was starting she asked if I liked the perfume she was wearing. I said that she knew I did as it was one I really like to smell on her, 'Brown Sugar' by a company called Bodycontrol. At least I think that's who sells it. We kissed a couple of times while the movies were playing, but weren't really making out or anything. By the time the second DVD ended it was bedtime and the cuddling and whatnot through two movies had us both expecting more than sweet dreams. She commented later that it was truly amazing how effective those pheromones are. I asked her what she meant and she asked if I really didn't know that she was wearing her Scent of Eros . I really didn't. She said that I had been really horny and attentive to her all through the movies and extra passionate about the lovemaking that followed. Was I really that different? All I really felt was just a desire to be close to her and keep her close to me. I can't say I felt anything that was different from normal, but according to her I showed her my attention more than "normal" and was more "romantic" in the way I touched her.
What have I learned? Just what we've known from using them on others. Pheromones don't create feeling but they amplify and possibly expose feelings that we already have. The feelings were so natural that I wasn't even aware that anything was different. I think this is what surprises me; responses to pheromones can seem so out of the ordinary that we note the as 'hits' for lack of a better term. The person being effected though would never suspect that their actions are in any way out of the ordinary.
We are currently in something of a long distance relationship. That's one of the reasons I am hesitant to post. Hopefully in the future she and I will be together on a more permanent basis and will be able to share our experiences with you on an ongoing basis. I am hoping to get her involved in the pheromone community but only as much as she is comfortable...hence the anonymous posting for the time being.
Thanks QuietGuy for your help here, and thanks to everyone who is making this a great place to post.