(12-12-2021 12:55 PM)Cyperian_xi Wrote: During the conversation she brought up that I remind her of her older brother but, better looking. 
She made at least 4 comments about me being like a big brother to her and yet was slightly-to moderately flirty. Mentioned other sexual things to me here and there.
Safe to say she's got some kink to her.
Weird I know but, after a year of not having any targets and finally getting one I think I'll try to line up a shot.
Hiya Cyperian;
Yes, she has some kinks, but they're probably not what you think.
No offense, and feel free to tell me to fuck off, but what I see here is merely ball-dropping, and not on her part. she was telling you that you make her feel safe and comfortable, like being around family and friends.
The "but better looking" comment was a DIRECT proclamation that she sees you in a sexual way. By adding in more innuendo, she was inviting you to pick up the ball and play along with her by adding in, or continuing innuendo.
Women don't get turned on with their bodies, they do so in their minds. She dropped lots and lots of not-very subtle hints that she wanted you to treat her as if you two have known each other forever and then add in some sexual spice. there's some jackass on here that has rambled on and on about how to pick up on this sort thing and how to connect with her on her level.
Here's a good exercise for you. In your next score of conversations with ladies, never respond immediately. Take about 1/2 a second and mentally ask yourself "what does she mean by that?" Think about what your unspoken and underlying impetus to say that might be, then respond to the unspoken information, as well as her words.
when she says: You remind me of my older brother only hotter, she means, I'm so comfortable with you and I find you attractive.
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