(04-04-2014 3:41 PM)dexter Wrote: or she could get an Alpha vibe from someone perceived as Beta and freak out from the inconsistencies. Depends how much of a beta vibe she stuck you with before.
Very first time we met, she was working in a restaurant and I was there with my ex. That could be taken any way, but I would say that's pre-selection.
She may have not remembered that but the next time, we actually met at a show. I got her number. I was VERY alpha there.
Over the next week or so, we texted a lot. The day after was great but then, maybe I said some weird shit, she wasn't responding as much. I chilled out but I would say that was beta. Rookie move, should've just let it be after establishing rapport and another time to hang out.
Then we met for lunch. She was nervous for sure, even letting me know. When the bill came, I said I'd pay like a suckerbutt, even though she had spoken up first about paying for hers. Then, when we left, I suggested we grab a beer. She says, "but I don't really have money for a beer." I said, oh no problem, I'll pay. VERY beta. I just paid for lunch lol. Yet somehow, I wasn't thinking straight.
I knew I had to withdraw there. We've spoken a bit on Facebook. I feel dangerously close to the friendzone. I need some alpha. That night at the show, she gave me a kiss when she left and had DITH. She was all about me. I gotta regain my footing
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