Just wanted to drop in and say hello and thank you in advance for all of the honest opinions. I've dabbled with mones in the past just a touch, but never really took the deep dive to really learn until just recently due to a situation I've found myself in.

I recently (past 3-4 months) have gotten close with a female who I feel like I have an amazing connection with and thought it was mutual. We see each other a few times a week and we've hung out a number of times alone and also with our group of friends. All indications were there was something special there...deep conversations, IOI, kino, but...recently had a talk where I was basically friend zoned. I don't know, maybe i was always there, but all indications seemed otherwise.

FF to me writing this introduction after having spent basically a little over a week going through reviews and different forum posts about mones and how they may potentially help. I'm not sure what to expect, but I feel it's worth a try and here's where I'm starting.

Tools I've started with: Xist (spray);
Tools in arsenal not used yet: Xist (oil); Evolve (oil); EFTZ; GOA; A1

I'm trying to break out of the FZ to see if there may be something there. I've chosen Xist for reset. There have just been two exposures of maybe several hours, but not necessarily really direct exposure. We're in the same room, but not always next to each other, but passing back and forth past each other. We're both Asian and in our 40s.

Welcome!

Nice introduction! Your first selection of products looks quite good to me.

An reminder: there is a returning observation especially from the US, where they have a nice mixture of ethnicities and can compare between these, is that the Asians seem to be more sensitive to mones than Caucasians with Africans requiring most for effect. So it might smart to start with a low dose and increase if necessary.

An other topic which comes up always is that mones only do 10% of the job. The heavy lifting is still to be done by you. Your introduction shows that you are quite observing and have some insight into the science and art of relationships. Think thru on which aspects of you and your behavior you might have been FZed.

If mones are 10%, then the other factors (behavior, escalation, clothing, personality, fitness, hygiene, haircut, whatever) are 90%. If you improve by 11% of these 90% you will have the same effect as from the mones, and together with mones you move forward by 20%. So don't miss out on the non-pheromone factors.

3rd comment, based on own experience: Long time ago I was FZed as well, BfFF so to speak. I got her into a romantic and sexual relationship (which holds now for decades) at the point when I got over my oneitis and moved on. Only then she realized that she was going to loose me and this was the moment when she started to chase me. So by you being too close and giving her 90% of what she would have of you in a real romantic relationship, she has no reason to change your status of BFF. Just feed to thought...

Welcome to the forum man.

For me personality Xist and GOA never worked (though as I recall GOA is a product designed for people who are already in an intimate relationship). Escape the friendzone is a great poduct imo, gets friends looking at you differently

(05-05-2022 2:30 AM)Marcus Antonius Wrote:  So by you being too close and giving her 90% of what she would have of you in a real romantic relationship, she has no reason to change your status of BFF. Just feed to thought...

Golden words, I like this way of describing it. Yeah if a girl gets resources from you (time & attention is also a resource), she'd be less likely to change also due to the fact change is a scary thing and she might lose these resources.

Thanks for the replies guys. Appreciate it