If you look at IG all the models these days can get laid on looks, fitness, fashion alone.

It's about hookups. No one has time for dating.

Models on IG are not showcasing their brains, or talents.. It's all sexual attraction.

The end of GAME. The end of PUA skills.

You don't need any of that to lay a model.

Comments?

There's some truth in that.

IMO, it's just that the game has changed.

Real world approaches are less frequent in modern culture. Approaching and asking people out happens entirely online; whether its dating apps or on social media. And on dating apps and social media - "looks, fitness and fashion" are king. But you still need "game", ie social ability, to succeed when you actually go on the date. Of course that "game" is quite different to the kinda game focused on by PUA (approaching, getting numbers, getting first dates).

This very eerily echoes a common lamentation in the Incel and PUA groups.

The common mantra is that self-improvement, being nice, learning "Game", or any other thing that people say works is just malarky. Ultimately the "Chads", those that get the women (umm...Stacys) are just the lucky few blessed with LMS...looks, money, and status.

We see it in the incels as they would rather pretend to attempt to better themselves than truly try and therefore net no progress. In the PUA spheres, this happens when the would-be Lothario reaches the end of the hogwash that is called Game, doesn't realize that the entirety of it is merely the first step of the journey, not the destination, and more or less hits a brick wall, curtailing or obliterating their seduction.

Having good looks, being sexy, helps, but the car with the best paint job doesn't win the race. Additionally, looks are superficial, which means, at best, they only attract those that are, themselves, superficial. One may be less than a bronze Ubermensche Adonis and get more ass than a toilet seat; it's all about how you make others feel.

(06-23-2022 8:55 AM)Gladen Wrote:  it's all about how you make others feel.

Should have led with this. More important than anything else you wrote.

In the words of the mighty Casanova: "The most beautiful women don't sleep with me because of money, looks, or power, but because of the way I make them FEEL"

Having said all that Casanova was good looking, spent lots of money on fancy picnics and dinners, and was a powerful man who went with the most beautiful, educated women, and also escaped prison where he served time for sleeping with his illegitimate niece.

So who can we trust?

I say when all else fails believe this: "EVERY ADVANTAGE COUNTS."