(07-21-2021 5:11 PM)dsouza Wrote: It creates intrigue... She'll chase me with more prying questions if she's the least bit interested.
Some congratulations are in order. I wouldn't say that you've walked into a different world just yet, but you have peeked through the window. It isn't (only or all) about being intriguing, but that facet is a must.
Think of it this way: imagine that you see a fine lady that upon first sight just makes you want her. You go up to her and begin a conversation. You eventually ask her what she does for a living. To you, what does her actual occupation really have to do with it? If you're honest with yourself, what she does for money has no import whatsoever.
Provided that you are always honest and sincere and speak from the heart, not from a strategic plan, you can take real delight in getting her talking to you about all of her essence on an emotional level while being intriguing and mysterious yourself. What happens is that she ends up confiding in you, immediately and that triggers a "soul-mate-syndrome" in her psyche (yours, too by the way, so you've been warned). Because she's coming from an emotional place everything said or done gets filtered through her lens of self into raw emotion, typically without any logic-barriers to inhibit her.
One must unlearn all the tripe they've been taught, or taught themselves, in order to understand that chasing women requires them to run away. Why not open their soul instead of just opening them? When you get her moving on that emotional, primal level she'll run to you because no other man has ever "gotten" her before.
All one needs to do, and this is why I said that it takes precision and would take forever to map out into any sort of a strategy, is to immediately pick up on what she is lacking in her heart, mind, and soul and provide her a taste of that--just enough that she wants more--and let her come for it and claw it out of you.
Most guys are focused on the absolutely wrong things when trying to get women. They concentrate on battering down her resistance, being prestigious, acting like they're the biggest badass in the room, and being impressive. All the lines, lingo, and 'game' out there attempts to emulate what real seducers do but pretty much misses the entire point. It is all about making her feel and to feel connected. When you provide her what she is missing in order to let herself be her true, unbridled self, while being pleasantly enticing, the world opens.