(07-21-2021 2:16 PM)dsouza Wrote: Do you have any tips how to steer things more emotionally with a woman
As I mentioned, it is something that requires precision, as well as a horde of other traits, most of them mental and hinging upon social astuteness. Just to cover the concept would be a ramble worthy prophetic proportions.
For starters, though, I don't talk about myself, I get her to talk about herself. She needs to work more than a bit to pull any information about myself. I make it a challenging game for her. When I do surrender something, it is just enough to entice, with plenty of room for her to fill in a mental image.
She ends up telling me her life story and feeling that deep bond of being kindred spirits, but yet knows almost nothing about me except that I am interesting, mysterious, have a quick wit and sense of humor, and that she's feeling.
Most guys concentrate on "say this to her in this way", "do this to her in this manner". That is leaps and bounds better than being a wallflower or an insincere externalizing whiner proclaiming that nothing works; but it doesn't put her into the immediate and undeniable sense of feeling that "this guy" is either Mr. Right or Mr. Right Now and she's going to find out even if she does need to make the first move, the second, and the third. Once you get her taking those steps towards you, it's like a tractor-beam.
All you need to do is to get her to open up, sexualize it in a way that she'll respond to but not take offense nor shut down over, and appeal to her emotional and inner self while appreciating the outer beauty of her mortal coil.
All of this is built on one simple revelation: People don't just want sex; they want to feel like they've never felt before.
You'd be shocked at the shit i get away with because I tap into her emotional states and foster that quick connection rather than try to work her over with my dazzling and practiced seduction techniques.
It isn't so difficult to get others into this state. Our favorite subject is always ourselves. All you need to do is to get the other party on a roll about their inner feelings and talking with delight and enthusiasm. Then you make them approach you, mentally, to learn about you; you then become this grand enigma that they are obsessed with unraveling. Once you learn how to sexualize things without causing anything but delight and inspiration, she's feeling it so strong that she becomes determined to get you.
This is why is said I prefer Voodoo over Casanova although Casanova is the better choice for most guys. when you move beyond merely making moves to get the girl you'll find that all the flotsam most guys were fixated upon as pickup techniques is a mere flamethrower compared to the nuclear blast that the melding of her emotions, hopes, and fantasies clashing together in a singularity. The underhanded chaos-effect of Voodoo makes it a tad bit easier for me.
Edited to add: Here's a good starting point from my own recent experience. you just meet a woman and she asks you what you do for a living. what is your answer?