RE: Building a gang?
03-02-2023 10:32 AM
OK, an interesting topic, so let’s dissect it a bit.
I use the word gang myself for describing my social circle, and hope you mean the same, not a real criminal gang. As my 'gang' or 'tribe' contains a lot of woman, your question seems to focus on men, so maybe 'band of brothers' would be a good term.
The 3 answers you’ve got tell roughly the same: Firstly, do not do crazy stuff, with or without mones. No mone will save you from trouble you might find yourself in by fucking with the wrong guys.
Secondly, if you repeatedly find yourself in aggressive situations, probably it is an internal problem on your side. Think about that. As I wrote, I can understand that one find oneself in a situation requiring physical force, but it should not be more often than once in a decade. Of course, I write from the relative safety and stable society of an EU country where I can go at any time of the day nearly anywhere without feeling unsave. I don't fully understand living conditions in places differing much from that like a Brazilian favella, a South African township or in the Donbas of east Ukraine.
As any such situation can lead to a loss of limb or life, the smart move would always be to avoid it. If you find yourself in such situation you or someone else have most likely done several stupid decisions beforehand. But once in there, you need to come out unharmed and standing your ground can be the best behavior sometimes, while deescalation and retrieve is a smart move at other times. The only situation where I can imagine an unconditional fight to whatever fierce end to come would be to protect vulnerable people, children, woman, or so. If you find yourself in an unsafe area, ask yourself if you can move away.
Of course, being and appearing strong allow you to avoid the conflict to become physical. Make it expensive for your adversary to attack you. This is the basic idea of the answer from bootysage as well the meaning of my ‘standing straight…’ comment. You want to be able to do anything what is necessary, but you also want to control your behavior to the highest degree. This is also imho what is highly looked for in men by woman. In pop culture this is the essence of a James Bond, of a Jedi or of Bruce Willis in the ‘Die hard’ series. It’s probably a balance thing, projecting a confident, stong, masculine, no-pushover vibe BUT not appearing as a threat. It is as often a subcommunication thing. Solid eye contact, standing straight, owning your space, calm appearance tell the others you are not afraid of them. A slight smile, visible hands the right distance and so on tell them they have no reason to be afraid of you. It makes as well a difference how you dress. We need a few hundred milliseconds to decide how we feel about other people. And than we stick to that decision.
As I mentioned, I often experienced this male-male respect vibe even after very short exposures. Some were hyper-masculine men, much more so than anything what I could project just by myself. Here you are right, mones can help to give this vibe. I would say it is the same products that are useful for respect in the corporate world or workplace. I’ve seen quite heavy hits in men, top level managers who lead thousands of people but became very buddybuddy with me. I’ve even pulled jokes on such a CEO and he just laughed along.
In the online description of many clubs you can read how bad the bouncers are, I literally never ever had a single problem with them. I rather small talk and joke with them. Up to now I always just felt respect.
The products that delivered that were very consistantly Alpha Treasure and XSAcsend. The Dirty Primitive mentioned would most likely work as well. I would guess that –none and Cops are helpful. But this might depend on your personality. If you are already hyper-masculine (as a friend of mine who repeatedly got into troubles), than adding –none might be counterproductive as it can appear threatening. As I’m by my nature not too masculine (I admit it), than adding –none leads to better male respect. But one of the insane male respect hits I had, where gym bros with twice my muscle mass kind of worshipped me and my catch of the night, were achieved with The Love God, whichever component in there it was.
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