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BDSM play party
08-21-2021 3:17 PM

I am invited to a BDSM play party. I am totally clueless about the atmosphere in these events. I figure it will take place in a "dungeon" full of kinky-minded folk. Which product would you wear for such a scenario? Anyone who has frequented such events?
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08-21-2021 4:14 PM

I've been to my fair share, as well as other lifestyle parties and several MUNCH groups.

Myself, I find it slightly odd that one not in, or not genuinely interested in, the BDSM lifestyle would be invited, as groups tend to be fairly closed. But I digress.

First off, while it can and probably will get a bit wild, forget everything you think you might know or have seen in porn or in the movies. Secondly, don't necessarily expect it be an orgy night, as things typically aren't like that except for small groups within the group that are very comfortable with each other.

But this does not mean that the atmosphere isn't conducive to freedom, free-will, consent, and wildness.

If you're just going to check it out for future membership, etc, then wearing a good social would do you well for mingling and getting to know the people.

If you think that you are a natural Dom or Top then wear a good alpha with some sexuals that doesn't have off-putting effects for you. I would not recommend anything that gets you shit-tested or intimidates others.

If you're a switch, bottom, or sub, then go with a heavy sexual and a light scent.

However, be warned. Unless this is an open to the public event--which is mostly for show--, the group will have its own dynamics and sets of rules. Mind your manners, remember that despite what you may think, everything is all about consent, and just because somebody is a sub does NOT mean that they are your sub.

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08-23-2021 2:37 AM

Let's say I have a certain friendship with a lady who attends these events regularly, and as I am curious about all sorts of sexual stuff, I will not miss the opportunity to meet other kinky people. In the Fetlife group, the event title includes the word orgy, so probably it won't be just a "munch".
As it would be my first time, maybe I should go with a social as you suggested?
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08-23-2021 8:48 AM

(08-23-2021 2:37 AM)campoviejo Wrote:  Let's say I have a certain friendship with a lady who attends these events regularly, and as I am curious about all sorts of sexual stuff, I will not miss the opportunity to meet other kinky people. In the Fetlife group, the event title includes the word orgy, so probably it won't be just a "munch".
As it would be my first time, maybe I should go with a social as you suggested?

I'd say a sexual-social that makes you feel closer to your best self.

Despite the adult themes, you're still an outsider and it would do well to ingratiate yourself to the entire group, as is the honorable duty of any respectful guest.

If I were going, I'd go with TLCG, Wanted Man, Charisma, or perhaps TKO. Not to recommend those particular products to you, as we're all different, but to illustrate that my personal choices would be products that I naturally align with.

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08-23-2021 10:38 AM

TLCG? Is it some modification of TLG? Unfortunately, I have never tried anything from LPMP, but TKO worked well for me.
My current "stash" (AM, Glace, Ensnare, Titan, HF) needs some replenishing. Been thinking about a new order from Paulius.
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08-23-2021 10:46 AM

Sorry, forgot... you probably meant TLG with cops?
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08-24-2021 7:18 AM

Most likely

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