i'm doing community work and leading a group of guys + girls 2-4 years younger than me. recommendations on what i should wear?

today i wore Wolf + Hyp. Hyp as usual gives me that social charm that helps me to lead the group, but it doesn't give me that comfort to draw them in. Wolf makes no question about who's the leader, but i think they might feel a tad uncomfortable around me.

i'm not intending to lead from afar, what with the kind of work i'm doing. i want to draw them in, get to know them, get them to like me and share their lives. basically the trusted, likable friend, but still the leader they respect. and certainly no romantic undertones for the ladies, don't want to give the wrong idea.

any recommendations?

Dad For Men
or small doses of
Wolf
Corpo

True Alpha would be good too. 2 drops or so