So now you guys are thinking, damn not yet another stupid newbie who does not even lift nor press on search... But I did ! So continue at some kind of ease
So heres the thing as some of you might know from my intro.
I've recently been labelled as a friend and no more a potential S.O. by my S.O... 4 years friendship, I know her like no one else and she confides to me as she does to no one else. We had some romantic action sparkling and happening in the beginning but because of some stupid events she pulled away and wrapped aways her initial feelings for me. But we met again a few months after and a friendsship blossomed...
She says she has been thinking her way to find romantic feelings for me which she couldn't and decided to date someone else where she could find some butterflies and I have acted very cool about it, she knows that I don't like her dating someone else, but she also knows that I don't make drama over it.. , and I have told her, very recently that she can't think romantic feelings for me, but she better get ready to go on some real dates with me instead of friendship-cuddling sessions. She doesn't want to date multiple people at once because that's "wrong", but I know for a fact that she could be very confused yet about me... If it doesn't work out I'll have to move on and she knows that. Everything is a match on papers, but we act like a couple who have been together for 10 years, and we lack the romantic/emotional raw sexual attraction part.. Also because I haven't made any serious move, since we haven't dated and blablabla... So this whole attempt now is my first try in a long time, and also my final attempt to get her. We had some trust issues based on misunderstandings and somebody trying to malign me in her eyes 1.5 month ago, just about the same period when she told me that now it's better to be friends and she didn't want to loose me in her life. Coincidence? I think not... But I have been trying to do my best to just keep being myself at my best...
I've upped my lifestyle, and damn it feels good to be back in the fast track. Working out, acing at the corporate, still being damn loyal, empathic and humble, I am the type of guy who goes for the top, but won't step on the faces of others to do so.. a positively competitive type of man. I would rather fight for my S.O. and giving the other guy a fair chance by not maligning him or anything like that... I am very confident in myself and don't need to play unfair, except for the mones part which I only see as giving me a little more edge to come out of the box I have been put in...
I like dressing classy and stylish, I am not as street smart as I would like to be, but it doesn't stop me at all. I can get IOIs from other attractive ladies, but apart from a little smile, I don't really care that much about it since I am very focussed on my S.O. and I happen to like being loyal towards my own feelings for her. For now I have though decided to allow myself to flirt with no strings with anyone in my interest since I need to do something for myself and that's totally alright.. But let's see..
I have a gentlemans mind and there's a wolf in me which I might have tamed a little too much...
Well the mones part, all sprays unscented combined with either a classy Armani or a sweet Hugo Boss scent :
3 weeks ago I somehow convinced her to meet up again
4 x XIST 1 x Cohesion -> She opened up after a while and there was slightly kino and a kiss on my cheek which claims was instinctly and she wouldn't do it again...
We got into another discussion based on more misunderstandings over text and phone. For the first time ever I nonstop scolded her for 1 hours on the phone.
After this she just turned completly and started trusting me again, and just going back to being the same old with me again.. almost..
For the next three encounters
4 x Xist + 1.5 x Evolve
4 x Xist + 1 x Cohesion and 1.5 x Evolve
4 x XIST solo
The following week I suggested to meet up with her 3 times, going from 30 minutes - 2 hours sessions, just sitting and talking, me rubbing her, or feeding her or talking with her of whats on her mind.
This was good for us since now we are totally back as close friends and she even tells me things she wouldn't before these trust issued.
She has been exposed to
4 x Xist + 2x Evolve
On her birthday which actually was epic and fun and where I also got the chance to tell her that, in the coming few months, I'd like to date her for real, and if it doesn't work out, we tried, and I'll close it and move on, but if it does, I'll look forward to celebrate her next year too..
So total 5 x exposures with lots of Xist.
I definately think Xist has done it work combined with me actually changing and her noticing..
Now we are at next steps...
I would like to signal a High-status, Alpha Male, Romantic Pull, Sexual Pull, Fun and Flirty, with a slight touch of Badboy packed in my Gentleman/Business styled and superbly comforting personality... Haha just that, I know that's no problem... No seriously though...
I'll keep doing Xist since it's still resetting/imprinting/romantic pulling, but what to combine with ? Receiving my Xist oil soon hopefully, and the weather is kind of cold here.. 5-12 degrees celcius...
Yeah I am kind of fond of PheromoneXS products and service, and for me it seems like it's doing its thing so I have a lot of these on the table for future steps after this coming week which will continue with XIST + Evolve and maybe Cohesion (not too much since it's more comfort than sexual):
4 x Xist + Evolve
4 x Xist + Evolve + Cohesion
4 x Xist + Ascend - minus cops
4 x Xist + Ascend - minus cops + Love Boat
4 x Xist + Ascend - minus cops + Love Boat + Evolve
4 x Xist + Ascend - minus cops + VibesXS
4 x Xist + Ascend - minus cops + VibesXS + Evolve
4 x Xist + Alfa Maschio Q4 2016
4 x Xist + L2K V1 Q4 2016
4 x Xist + Certo Q4 2016
Something completely else to combine with Xist?
Grail of Affection
Heck, maybe even SOB or API ?
What else is there to think of ?
And yeah if I miss to win her... which I certainly don't intend to... I'll have a lot of mones to play with for later, so worry not about that part. I am able to have my heart broken to a million pieces, and get them together fast, because I would have known that I tried my absolutely best the last many years with her, and I could do nothing else... So bring it on !
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