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09-02-2017 7:21 AM

How do you guys polish your social skills? Do you think learning public speak can help with social skills?

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(09-02-2017 7:21 AM)haggy Wrote:  How do you guys polish your social skills? Do you think learning public speak can help with social skills?

Just like anything else, get out there and do it. If you're socially awkward, start small. Start asking strangers for the time. Do it often. Then try to think of a follow up. "Hey, do you have the time? [she tells you the time] Wow, I like your watch/nails/earrings/bracelet/ring. [she says thanks] Gotta run!" and get out before you realize you should be afraid and holding up some wallpaper somewhere.

And if nothing occurs to you to compliment or follow up, RELAX. It's OK. Go to the next one and try again. The more you try, the more chances you give yourself to succeed and follow up. When you do follow up, high five yourself. Trophy earned! Challenge completed! Leveled up!

Once you're comfortable with that, keep adding on. Drop the excuse of asking for the time and just find a reason to talk to someone. "Wow this line is huge!" "Hot enough for ya?" "Does this smell like chloroform to you?" (OK, don't do that last one)
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09-02-2017 10:48 AM

The key is to not be attached to the outcome. Stay loose, have fun, and don't be afraid to be silly or laugh at yourself.

If you've ever browsed a dating site, they all say the same thing... Women want a man that's fun and makes them laugh.

I agree with Oxford on commenting on their jewelry. It's an opportunity to open. Vice versa, women do the same thing, sometimes wearing a cool necklace will afford a woman the opportunity to open you.

Hold onto your beliefs loosely, and hold onto your truths tightly.
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