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Second date mone ideas
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05-08-2018 8:00 PM

(05-08-2018 7:31 PM)RussianWolf Wrote:  It was her birthday, and your way of celebrating was a movie. Case closed.

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Second that!

Wine and dine.
Fine restaurant, sporting event,
Beach club/pub, dancing,
Any other fun activity.
Movie is so high school.
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05-09-2018 6:16 AM

(05-08-2018 8:00 PM)Lostdreams Wrote:  
This
Second that!

Wine and dine.
Fine restaurant, sporting event,
Beach club/pub, dancing,
Any other fun activity.
Movie is so high school.

I've come to dislike cafés, restaurants, anything where you sit across a table from your date. 1) The table is a barrier between you, instinctively people sit across a table from you, and trying to reposition yourself part-way through a date to be next to them can look awkward unless you're suave AF, and 2) your focus is entirely on each other, which leads to a more in-depth "job interview" type conversation rather than light banter. Any activity where you can both focus on and comment on other things around you, like the zoo (wow that gibbon looks just like my 3rd grade teacher) or mini-golf (I can't believe you missed the windmill, I hope your aim is better elsewhere) will lead to a more fun conversation.

I will also second what has been said above, in that you should have told her the where and when. Some say women like men to make decisions for them, maybe that's true, but I don't like women like that. There's a difference between making a woman's decisions for her, and being bold and decisive within yourself. Sure it's a second date and you may not know enough about her to know what she likes and doesn't like for the third, but that's the fun. If she loves mini-golf, then great. If she hates the zoo because the gibbons reminds her of an ex, make a joke about it and it then becomes a "remember this awful date" memory that you both share and laugh about.

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They've done studies you know...60% of the time, it works every time
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