Yep.

So... let me explain. I had this teacher from school that was showing signs of interest, and good lord this man resembles my dad or grandpa figure, hell he looks like Santa. So... let's call him Santa.

How did it all begin? God knows when I hardly even remember. But to make a long story short... when I graduated from college he asked me for coffee which I gladly went to cause coffee doesn't mean anything to me. But then he asked me for drinks and I was like "oooooh noo I'm too busy" cause I don't want to get on people's bad side, and this guy would probably hold a grudge which is what I don't want... and I kept postponing that plan for months until I lectured his class and he got a hold of my portfolio (shit). Which was my fault really, I forgot it there (stupid me)

So finally he asked me for coffee again to give me my portfolio back and I was thinking *f**k* I'll have to go, I said yes but planned to bring a friend with me.

So that day I decided NO COPS! I'd like to make him not feel sexually attracted or not encourage that... too bad I was thinking of sillykitty's A314 reports... would have been nice to add a few drops of respect to my mix but anyways I used:

4 sprays of Natural Attraction the blue bottle - unscented for women (used it because it has friendly effects)
4 sprays of She-wolf (I used it because I felt like it wasn't a sexual phero...)
4 sprays of 340 (why? cause it makes me feel kinda happy and less tense)

it wasn't stinky but I covered it lightly with lolita lempicka, so I smell consistent lol

Self effects: I felt good.

Called a girlfriend and asked me to walk to the place that he wanted to meet and she says yes so I'm happy. Wore nothing sexual or revealing, believe me a lot of thought process went into this meeting lol.

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I get on the bus, went to the very last compartment at the very back as I wanted to be alone. Within a few stops I am surrounded by atleast 7 or 8 guys no women. I'm there in shocked and wondering what the hell! I didn't use cops!!!

I had a few guys stare at me Now I'm panicking in my head. Omg omg... I was hoping that it was my fushia pink fluoroscent nail polish... or my lipgloss... those are easy to remove... God they kept looking at me until I got off my stop. KILL ME. I hope it wasn't me or the Pheromones... I hope it was the window behind me - I hope they were looking at the streets. Or maybe they were?!

Okay.

So I got to college, saw my friend and she's ready to walk me to the place. I'm hoping that when she's there and he's there, I'll ask him if she could join us.

I went in the office, ex-tg wasn't there, his friend was. So I said my hello-greetings to him... and surprisingly he's looking at me with this pleasant face and usually he's grumpy... and he's super nice. Okay, that wasn't so bad at least he didn't stare. *phiou*

So my friend walks me to the meeting spot and I'm thinking hmm we're like 15 mins earlier but whatever, we can talk until my teacher comes.

NO

SHIT

He's f**king there and it's 15 mins earlier!!!

So my friend says hi, and he reaches to kiss my cheek and I'm standing there. My friend looks like she feels awkward but she talks anyways and then my teacher asks her if she wanted to join the terrace beside the school. She says NO (WHAT?! Girlfriend, you just busted my ass now!) I was standing there with big eyes at her, like damn just come at least for me! and she's like aaaah I'm so busy which was true... but girl, don't leave me alone with him.

AAAAAAAH.

So she leaves and I'm alone with him. Kill me. He starts walking to the parking lot and opens the door of the car. Asks me if a terrace somewhere in this "street" is okay and it was far from school. Oh my god. I'm so awkward in the car, he's looking at me while trying to make a conversation and I'm looking straight out the window as I didn't want to look at him. Ugh.

We're finally there and he asks me if I want a drink. DUDE, I thought you said COFFEE. I make an excuse that I don't like lime, I don't like this I don't like that.

And finally we're in the restaurant/bar. UGH Gaaawd. Universe, why why did I agree to this.

His body language changes, I feel like Santa Claus is flirting with me and I'm cringing at the thought of this. He's staring at me eat cake and drink coffee. While he was having glasses of wine and alcoholic beverages.

Yea, I think he got tipsy. :dash2:

He starting slashing this guy I almost dated (who was actually a creepy 30 yr old guy) but anyways. And then he talks about his wife, as I asked about her a lot because it made me feel less guilty/awkward.

He then congratulates me about my scholarship and says that I deserve it which I was happy about (it was the only nice thing I felt like he had to say in a professional way)

I don't know if it was the alcohol or the Pheromones but he started talking animatedly, he did all these actions with his hands and face and accents... hell he even mimicked a teacher in school and rolled his eyes about her never saw this side of him

So it's finally over and he insists strongly and offers to drive me home (ughhhhh I hate this, I hate this but I was thinking, I'll cut him off now and it's over)... well yea there's no bus, taxi or train near-by. This place is very industrial looking... I've never been there before.

In the car, he starts talking about his personal life... okay. Like things I DID NOT want to know.

He was a player till he was in his 40s and then settled down when he found his wife. He was telling me about his physical (you know... ugh... the man thing... down there?...) strength and that he's lost a little of that... and I'm sinking on the car chair getting grossed out (does he even see this?!) and then tells me that it would be nice to have a beautiful 25 yr old wife as she would take care of him (ugh... you're 60 something dude!!! and you look like Santa! now I'm cursed for life cause I'll never see santa the same way I used to when I was 5). I tell him that she would definately cheat on him, and then he asks me ugh really? you think? and I reassured him, and then he goes "ah doesn't matter, I don't care"...

What? you'd take a 25 yr old that would cheat on you but not a woman your age who truly loves you?! Something must be wrong up there.

And by the way people... I'm 21... so I'm sure it wasn't me. I'm sure it wasn't me. Hell, I hope it wasn't me.

And then he talks about the female teachers in school and how some of them looks "old" (what a douche) by the way all the female teachers are younger than him, and he said that so-and-so is okay according to his standards and she's the youngest there a 30 something year old woman.

Gawd, finally I get home. He looks at me like he wants a kiss or a hug. I just wave my hand and I'm out... He asks me to email him and keep in touch. Ugh. Now that I got my portfolio from you... buh-bye.

And that's about it. *sigh* I think the Pheromones did their part, what can they do... only enhance you right? I just wish I didn't wear any Pheromones... or perhaps played around with the ammo I had but I was afraid that it might have made things worse.

Will be edited down later so I don't sound like I'm ranting like a mad woman.

LOL is there anybody other than me going to school that is a chica?! lol if so... please please please watch out for those teachers... it's unwanted t-r-o-u-b-l-e from what I learned, not worth the fight.

Lecture is over and class is dismissed.

I feel icky dirty now....
just reading that.

I'm so sorry Selva. That's just gross. What a pig! Are you supposed to swoon with desire as he's dis'sing every woman he knows?

You should have said at your door: "Look, dude, if you are trying out your midlife cheatin' skills on me, I gotta tell you you need a LOT more practice. Ciao!"

Positive side: I dunno. Did those Pheromones work or was he just naturally creepy?

I must go wash now...

(06-17-2010 9:40 AM)Willow Wrote:  I feel icky dirty now....

I'm glad you feel my pain

(06-17-2010 9:40 AM)Willow Wrote:  I must go wash now...

Oh my god. I took 1 long ass shower... there was no questioning about that!

Eeew, thats awful!!!

I've been in situations like that before, especially when I was younger (teens/early 20's). What is it about these pervy old guys who are so attracted to the young chickies? Of course, as I got older, it seemed to happen less (or was I just getting older and wiser? or just less attractive to those types as I got older?).

Try to look at it this way - at least he didn't try to KISS you!!

Quote: at least he didn't try to KISS you!!

I would have had a heart attack

(((((Selva))))))

Looks like I am gonna have to take the old lady approach here LOL

You were wearing She Wolf. I believe there is a shit load of copulins in there. That is some potent shit. I am have been hearing a real lot of excellent reviews on this one. Its at the top of my list for Pheromones I have to have.

There is no doubt the old guy was a horn dog and no its not all the pheromones doing or your fault. Pheromones dont change people or make them do things out of character no matter how much hype you hear. They do make people less likely to hold back or mask their impulses though.


Now for the old lady part of the talk.......... If you dont feel comfortable going with someone alone then dont. There is a reason you feel uncomfortable. Its your intuition telling you something. Listen to it. Dont be afraid to say no and if he asks why tell him the truth.

I do hope you drove back. You mentioned the man got tipsy and if this is true then you should not have gotten in the car with him driving. Hell I dont care if there is no train ,bus or taxi. Get on the phone and call the taxi. Taxi's will go anywhere. Never do that again. Your grounded LOL Just kidding but I have grounded my kids for this.

I would have sprayed some copulins in his car when he wasnt looking so the next time his wife jumps in there he would have some explaining to do. LOL

sillykitty Wrote:Of course, as I got older, it seemed to happen less (or was I just getting older and wiser? or just less attractive to those types as I got older?).

I know there are always that handful of dirty old men you remember that creeped you out. I dont think it ever slows done. We get older and wiser and they get older and hornier LOL

Tisha

(06-19-2010 5:10 PM)Tisha Wrote:  You were wearing She Wolf. I believe there is a shit load of copulins in there. That is some potent shit. I am have been hearing a real lot of excellent reviews on this one. Its at the top of my list for Pheromones I have to have.

No way!!!

I didn't think that it was sexual because I couldn't smell the copulins but it did make me feel in a better mood. Now that you mentionned it, LOL no wonder why some of them were staring it makes so much sense now!

Sh*t I just shot myself without knowing.

(06-19-2010 5:10 PM)Tisha Wrote:  Now for the old lady part of the talk.......... If you dont feel comfortable going with someone alone then dont. There is a reason you feel uncomfortable. Its your intuition telling you something. Listen to it. Dont be afraid to say no and if he asks why tell him the truth.

Yes mum, I shall do so next time.

(06-19-2010 5:10 PM)Tisha Wrote:  I do hope you drove back. You mentioned the man got tipsy and if this is true then you should not have gotten in the car with him driving. Hell I dont care if there is no train ,bus or taxi. Get on the phone and call the taxi. Taxi's will go anywhere. Never do that again.

I know I'm young and stupid forgive me... I learned my lesson, wont do that ever again.

(06-19-2010 5:10 PM)Tisha Wrote:  Your grounded LOL Just kidding but I have grounded my kids for this.

If my parents knew... I would have been more than grounded actually.

Tisha's right, you don't need pheromones to attract this guy. The mere sight of you gets his old juices flowing.

Selva, you need to learn to say no, my dear. Think. Instead of meeting him for coffee, you could have told him you couldn't and that you'd come by school to pick up your porfolio and if he wasn't there, for him to just leave it with someone else for you to collect. Offending him is much less important than your well being and safety.

God have mercy on his lecherous old soul. The fact that he brought wee willy into the conversation is unacceptable, on any level, and as far as I'm concerned everything about this creep screams sexual harrasment. He's waaaay out of line and you need to be very careful.

Please, under no circumstance ever get into a car with anyone who's been drinking. Not to mention what could happen if he decided to drive off somewhere with you! Seriously, this guy is whacked.

I'm glad you've learned your lesson because this creep is an expert at intimidating you and you need to stand up for youself! I know you're young but you've got to think about the situations you're putting yourself in and the consequenses of being alone with Bad Santa, or anyone else.

(06-17-2010 12:43 PM)Sillykitty Wrote:  
Try to look at it this way - at least he didn't try to KISS you!!

That's next, if you don't watch yourself!


Why do Tisha and I tell you these things, my sweet? That's right.

Yeah, it's a good thing Ma and Pa didn't find out. You'd be chained to the washer and grounded till you're thirty!


Bella

(06-20-2010 7:39 AM)Bella Wrote:  Yeah, it's a good thing Ma and Pa didn't find out. You'd be chained to the washer and grounded till you're thirty!

And if you must do naughty things that are grounded-worthy, at least make sure they're things that YOU ENJOY!!

HOLY SHIT.

I was just surfing over at pherotalk... and I accidently stumbled on a report on mx340 and thought to myself... hey this mix sounds familiar!

Turns out mx340 is actually instant honesty x 4 (with just a different scent!!!!)

OMFG I used 3 or 4 sprays of this stuff... no wonder why my hits with this mix were a little intense than usual :O

I'm a little surprised that I didn't kill my braincells or was a chatterbox spilling out my life story. LOL