Yesterday I was getting ready to see a girlfriend for coffee...

So I decided to use she-wolf once again because it seems to be working on me lately... so I thought why not just use it again but when I'm less dressy.

4 sprays of she-wolf
3 sprays of mx340

Cover scent: Pink Sugar

Me: minimal makeup, no sexy attire *sigh*

Environment: So hot outside, A/C in the coffeeshop, warm in the bus

Self effects: this time, I got nothing - didn't see much of a difference.

Reactions:

- Nothing special from mom, dad or sister. Usually she-wolf "stinks" to them, but I guess the pink sugar covered it real good

- Got on the bus - same crowding effect in where I was sitting. All surrounded by guys. Awkward? lol yes. Stares? yep. But I get that with she-wolf often so I was like *phiou*

- So my stop arrives, there's this dude in front of me, he could have actually left first but he was like "you go first" with the gentleman approach. So I do my usual thing - smile/thanks. So I'm walking to the coffee shop... after 10 mins, I hear an "excuse me madame" and I turn around, LOL I just realized that he's been following me thing is he's been calling me a few times but I had my ipod on...

I'm there smiling wondering if he needs help with finding an address (it's usual in my city), he says "you're beautiful"

I'm there standing in shock... don't know what to say... but ended up saying thank you and was preparing to walk away. And then he stops me again and now I'm wondering if he wants to offer a job...

He asks me if I want to go for drinks sometime This time my eyes were like literally wide open lol and I was blinking at him LOL Now I had no clue how to reply to that cause in my head it's a definite no... don't get me wrong I was very flattered, but I don't know about going out with a total stranger... so I'm blinking at everything... and then he asks me if I'm in a relationship and I go... ah yes... yes... lol, poor guy he apologized and I continued on my way to the coffee shop.

So finally I see my girlfriend, we do our ritual (big fat grizzly hug) and talked about what's new. And while we're at it, there's a dude beside our table just staring at us. She looks at me like why is he staring at us... and I shrugg it off lol

So that dude goes away, another older grandpa sits beside our table, this one is staring at us too LOL my friend was feeling a little awkward now (poor girl)...

Now we're done with coffee, I'm on my way back home. And I'm waiting for the bus... a random red cross dude has his arms wide open as if he's going to hug to me... and I'm looking at him like "Do I even know you?".. turns out he was collecting donations - I don't mind donating but $10.00 every week for a year is something I can't afford being a student. So I'm there looking at him like dude... I can't do this and he wont let me go and he start talking about dating and the bus leaves... and I'm there staring at him like shit. I just missed my bus.

So I'm done with the red cross dude, finally the next bus comes after a million years and I'm drenching with sweat I get on the bus - didn't notice anything much cause I was sweating and it distracts me cause I start feeling self-conscious lol But I think the Pheromones died anyways, it was hell outside.

And that was about it.

Wow! That's a great report and great hits! That was pretty bold of that man on the street to just ask you out like that. Gotta give it to him.

Selva the grandpa magnet! I think maybe you need to reverse your poles darlin. But then again, that might have junior high school boys chasing you around!

Don't be this guy!


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Quote:That was pretty bold of that man on the street to just ask you out like that. Gotta give it to him.

That's true, I got to give him credits... I didn't think of that. He is indeed very courageous. I would have liked to see him without the huge sunglasses though.

Quote:Selva the grandpa magnet!

*sigh* I know Mark... I wish I knew what makes these 60 yr old men act funny.

I'm not against older men, but the ones that I meet are often so perverted. Er... did I tell ya last time my girlfriend went to the school workshop a 60 yr old carpenter offered to tie her shoe lace... next thing she knew is that he kept looking up at her... and last thing she realized is that she was wearing a mini skirt...

I didn't want to know the rest of the story

Quote:I think maybe you need to reverse your poles darlin. But then again, that might have junior high school boys chasing you around!

This makes me think of the movie "Notes on a scandal" Ewwww!!! How could you Mark! :pacman:

Oh, Selva! Face it, kiddo, they just can't help themselves! I'm gonna say, yes, the pheromones have an effect but they add just a small percentage to the overall equation. See the math below, lol.

> Natural Man Magnet! > + pheromones =

I know you were taken aback by his forwardness, but it's OK to meet people on the street. He liked what he saw and had the gumption to go for it. It's what we're always telling guys to do, right! So, we can't blame him there.

Sweets, if that ever happens to you again, and you think you'd like to have a drink/coffee with him, you can. Invite him on the spot to join you for coffee, or, tell him you'd like to...then you choose the place and time....and tell him you'll be there, with a girlfriend. He has to agree to your terms or no dice, period. If he shows up, great. Make sure it's a very public place. Don't leave your girlfriend to be alone with him and don't ever leave your drink, or let him get one for you. Order it and/or get it yourself, and don't ever leave it unattended/out of your sight, even if that means taking it into the bathroom with you!

That doesn't mean he's ingenuous and I'm not trying to scare you as much as make you aware of paying attention and how to pay attention when you want to venture out like that. It does mean that you are taking a chance and if you decide to do that sometime you need a plan and a way out, remember? Better to be safe. :wink2:


BTW, that was a great report!


Bella

(07-07-2010 7:25 PM)Bella Wrote:   > Natural Man Magnet! > + pheromones =

HAHAHAHA!!! I don't deserve all that attention though.

I love how you use the smilies. The formula is friggin hilarious!

(07-07-2010 7:25 PM)Bella Wrote:  Sweets, if that ever happens to you again, and you think you'd like to have a drink/coffee with him, you can. Invite him on the spot to join you for coffee, or, tell him you'd like to...then you choose the place and time....and tell him you'll be there, with a girlfriend. He has to agree to your terms or no dice, period. If he shows up, great. Make sure it's a very public place. Don't leave your girlfriend to be alone with him and don't ever leave your drink, or let him get one for you. Order it and/or get it yourself, and don't ever leave it unattended/out of your sight, even if that means taking it into the bathroom with you!

Thanks for the advice ma!!! I guess I was too shy/shocked lol you know me

Are you serious about the bathroom though?! wow... that dangerous huh.

(07-07-2010 7:51 PM)esmeralda Wrote:  Are you serious about the bathroom though?! wow... that dangerous huh.

Think Roofies!!!

Well it took some guts for that guy to stop you and ask you for drinks. I agree, You gotta give him that. My opinion is the same as Bella's. Its you, just pheromone enhanced. Pheromones inspire people to act on what they feel. If you didnt have them on he would still think your beautiful and still wanted to have drinks but he probably would have kept it to himself.

So was bus guy attractive or interesting ? He sounded polite. Not saying you should have went but if you were interested just remain in a public place. I know he caught you off guard though. He jumped ahead to much. He should of tried to made some polite conversation on the bus of after you got off before jumping to the drinks.

Quote:That's true, I got to give him credits... I didn't think of that. He is indeed very courageous. I would have liked to see him without the huge sunglasses though.

If I were single and available for drinks LOL I would have asked him to take his sunglasses off. Eyes are the windows of the soul. Then I would have said something like......... " Wow you cut right to the chase dont you LOL" This would put him at ease. Then just tell him the truth. I dont know you and I dont usually have drinks with men I dont know who approach me on the street. If I did I would be in the bar day and night LOL............ At this point you can go two ways. Say thanks you but I am not interested or if you are interested tell him your name and ask his. Good advice from Bella on the drink thing. Cant be to careful.

This question is for everyone and I am sorry I am hijacking a bit here.

Would you have coffee or drinks with a guy who just approaches you on the street ?

How are strangers supposed to become not strangers if they dont interact ?

Tisha

lol I was hoping to see a few responses to tisha's question... *Bump*

(07-09-2010 6:23 AM)Tisha Wrote:  Would you have coffee or drinks with a guy who just approaches you on the street ?

It would depend on a lot of factors, but if I had time, the guy appeared to be ok and he was "my type", and he wanted to go somewhere nearby that was public where I felt safe, sure, why not. I have had guys ask to join me out of the blue at restaurants when I was eating alone and I said yes. Nothing came of those situations, but there was no harm done and I had a good time.