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David D's Double Your Dating - for Men
07-04-2010 1:16 PM

Well, I'll start the party out here by posting an intro to David DeAngelo's Double you Dating newsletter and e-book.

For anyone that's not familiar with David D, he publishes an e-mail newletter several times a week with advice and tips on dating and attrraction. The newsletter is free as well as an e-book he publishes. Of course in his newsletter he does push other programs that he sells.

But, the advice he provides for free is well worth the effort of subscribing to and reading, and really can help anyone who wants to improve their dating and attraction skills.

If I took away one thing and one thing only from David D, it would have to be his statement and explaination of "Attraction Is NOT a Choice" and learning that much of what I had been doing was counter productive.

Anyway, here's some of what David has to say, with links for subscribing to his newletter and downloading his e-book.

“The
Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably
Make With Women—
And What To Do About It...

Here
Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women—And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid
Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes...

-By
David DeAngelo, Author Of “Double Your Dating”

MISTAKE
#1: Being
Too Much Of A “Nice Guy”

Have
you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted "nice"
guys?


Of course you have.

Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed
to date "jerks"... but for some reason they were never romantically interested
in YOU.

What's going on here?

It's actually very simple...

Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose
the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.

And guess what?

Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.

And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.

I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to
ACCEPT... but GET OVER IT.

Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll NEVER have the success
with women that you want.

MISTAKE
#2: Trying To
“Convince Her To Like You"

What do most guys
do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like... but she's just notinterested?


Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.

Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN
IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!


Never, ever, EVER.

You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with "logic and
reasoning".

Think about it.

If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change
that FEELING by being "reasonable" with her?

But we all do it.

When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best
to change her mind.

Bad idea. One that will never work.


MISTAKE
#3: Looking To Her
For Approval Or Permission

In our desire
to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are
always doing things to get a woman's "approval" or "permission".


Another HORRIBLE idea.

Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them... EVER.

Don't get me wrong here.

You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.

But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval
and permission for things", think again.

You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED
at men who seek their approval.

Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around
and want her approval annoy her...



MISTAKE #4: Trying To “Buy” Her Affection With Food And Gifts

How many times
have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and
had her REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her even HALF as well as you did?


If you're like me, then you've had it happen a LOT.

Well guess what?

It's only NATURAL when this happens...

That's right, I said NATURAL.

When you do these things, you send a clear message:

"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your
attention and affection".

Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity,
and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that women see this as
MANIPULATION.


MISTAKE
#5: Sharing
“How You Feel” Too Early In
The Relationship With Her

Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most
men make with women is sharing how they "feel" too early on.

Attractive women are rare.

And they get a LOT of attention from men.

Most men don't realize this, but attractive
women are being approached in one way or another ALL THE

An attractive woman is often approached several
times a DAY by men who are interested. This translate into dozens of times per
week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.

And guess what?

Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of
men.

That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.

They know what to expect.

And one thing that turns an attractive women
off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts
saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates.

This signals to the woman that you're just like
all the other guys who fall for her too fast... and can't control themselves.

Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.

There's a much better way...

MISTAKE
#6: Not “Getting” How Attraction Works For Women

Women are VERY
different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.


You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.

When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual
attraction.

But does the same apply for women?

Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something
else going on?

Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, I can tell you
that women usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER
than looks.

Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men
with beautiful women than the other way around?

Think about it.

Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men... and they're attracted
to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.

If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you
can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU
feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this.

And ANY guy can learn how...



MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It
Takes Money And Looks

One of the most
common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started...
because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks
and money... or guys who are a certain height... or guys who are a certain age.


And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.

But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet
or his looks.

There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet...

And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these
guys.

YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just because you aren't rich, tall,
or handsome.

Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication
correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction
to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.



MISTAKE
#8: Giving Away
All Of Your Power To Women

Earlier I mentioned
that it's a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission.


Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER
to women.

Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the
woman wants.

Another bad idea...

Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over... Women aren't
attracted to Wussies!



MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing
EXACTLY What To Do In Each
Type Of Situation With Women

Now I'm going to
blow your mind...


A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.

Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language.
That's ten TIMES.

I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you're out on a date
with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.

And if you don't know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and
you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help!

And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating...

Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting
physical... everything.

If you don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it
up... and LOSE EVERYTHING.

And you KNOW it.

It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the
next with a woman... from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.



MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP


This is the biggest mistake of all.

This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of success
with women that they truly want.

I know, guys don't like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don't
like to ask for help.

Hey, I've been there myself.

Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to be successful
with women...

About five years ago I became fed up with the fact that I didn't know how
to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was attracted to.

It frustrated the hell out of me.

One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out,
but I just couldn't get up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that night...
right on the spot I made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be
successful with women and dating.

Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally
figured it all out.

I can now approach just about any woman and get her number almost instantly.
I've dated models, I've dated actresses, and I've dated nice, normal, regular
girls as well.

It has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick, insecure
feeling... like I don't know how to meet women... and I might wind up alone.

I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women.

I've written a book on the topic, and I've done seminars on both coasts of
the United States... and taught tens of thousands of men all around the world.



I Now Have A FREE, Three-Times-
A-Week Email Newsletter...

...But
the REALLY GREAT news is that I now publish a free email newsletter three times
a week that teaches any guy how to increase his success with women DRAMATICALLY.


And I'd like to invite you to sign up.

It's free, there's no obligation, I'll never share your email address with
anyone, and you can easily remove yourself anytime with no hassles (and no, I'll
never pull any of these tricks where I send you a bunch of unwanted junk email
when you try to remove yourself).

Of course, it even get's better than that...

In addition to my free email newsletter, I also have a killer downloadable
eBook that you can download right now and be reading in literally MINUTES from
right now.

It's JAM PACKED with dozens and dozens of specific strategies for overcoming
fear, approaching women, getting phone numbers and email address from women quickly,
great inexpensive or even free date ideas, and how to take things to a "physical"
level smoothly and easily.

To sign up for my free three-times-a-week newsletter AND download your copy
of this online eBook, just go here:



Free Newsletter
And Download eBook


Oh,
And One More Thing...

In this day and
age of "instant gratification", I realize that this might just sound like another
late-night info-mercial promising to make you rich by next week.


Well, that's not the case.

I've spent a lot of time, effort, and energy writing this eBook. I wanted
to design and create a program that ANY guy could easily understand and start
using IMMEDIATELY to meet and date more women... without having to lie, do dishonest
things, or be "manipulative".

I now believe that ANY man can be more successful with women and dating, and
I get emails every day with success stories from guys who are using this program
to meet and date wonderful women.

I know, I know... an ebook that can teach a regular guy how to be more successful
in the dating world? No way.

Well believe me, this program will DRAMATICALLY increase your success with
women... I absolutely guarantee it 100%.

If you'd like to take your success with women and dating to the next level,
and have the kind of success that you've always wanted, then go sign up for my
free newsletter, get all the details, and check out some great free samples of
the eBook located here:



Free
Newsletter And Download eBook

And
I'll talk to you again soon.


Your Friend,






David
DeAngelo

P.S.
Do some friends a favor, and FORWARD this article to their
email addresses. It might be the biggest gift you ever give them.


________________________________________​_____________________
Copyright 2008 David DeAngelo Communications Inc., All Rights Reserved. David
DeAngelo and Double Your Dating are trademarks of David DeAngelo Communications
Inc.


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RE: David D's Double Your Dating
07-04-2010 7:55 PM

I think David D.'s introductory item on "cocky funny" is OK, but IMO the rest of his products are overpriced and are stuffed with filler. His best stuff you can get for free. As a marketer, Eben Pagan (David DeAngelo's real name) is very, very good. That's why he sells so much stuff.
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RE: David D's Double Your Dating - for Men
01-15-2011 5:01 PM

i get this delivered in my spam email all the time.
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10-15-2011 4:52 PM

David D helped me out on my game in a lot of ways...and I only bought a few of his products. LOL. I think the one's I regularly applied much study into were the cocky funny routines, and one-liners. My whole c/f routine is the basis of me when I go out wearing mones. These two combine quite nicelyBig Grin

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10-15-2011 7:39 PM

I agree. What he teaches that is the most important is a mind-set or attitude. Then you just apply it with some words and it seems to work out pretty well. I like his attitude on not acting like a Wuss. lol.

Anyone know any good material for conversational stuff in general? My problem aren't attitude, conversational magick tricks or anything else, its more along the lines of coming up with "content" or something to talk about to begin with. Ever have a blank mind sometimes? Yeah it kind of sucks.
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RE: David D's Double Your Dating - for Men
10-16-2011 5:30 AM

Hi guys.

I don´t want to be disrespectfull to anyone, but i think most of those PUA guys are full of shit. I would keep away from them as much as possible.

The only dating related book I have read that offers IMHO a sane prespective on the subject is called "Models", and it´s written by a guy called Mark Manson. He also writes a blog where you can get for free most of the content of his book anyway. If you google his name, you´ll get to it easily.

Cheers.

Talk to you soon.
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I have read lost of them. David D is ok as are a few others like John Alexander and Rob & Zac.

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10-16-2011 7:35 AM

I used to be PUA reader,and after readin some books i understood,by seeing the big picture,that they all basically talk about the same,wich is not a bad thing,i think i learned alot on what mentality you gotta have.

So imo, you dont gotta do what they say word for word and read all the books,just see the big picture and most important,you gotta go out there and really try the stuff,one thing that happens to alot of PUA readers (it happened to me) is they stay stuck in the read stage lol
I used to be PUA reader,and after readin some books i understood,by seeing the big picture,that they all basically talk about the same,wich is not a bad thing,i think i learned alot on what mentality you gotta have.

So imo, you dont gotta do what they say word for word and read all the books,just see the big picture and most important,you gotta go out there and really try the stuff,one thing that happens to alot of PUA readers (it happened to me) is they stay stuck in the read stage lol
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10-16-2011 12:19 PM

Its an attitude and style. It isn't BS, but rather one of mny ways you can approach and all tha Jazz. I tried it and it wors some though I'm not proficient. David D makes some very important point though. Acting like a Wuss gets you nowhere special.
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10-16-2011 9:33 PM

David D definitely has some good things to say. I have been subscribed to him now for about a year. You are right, it is an attitude. He preaches much the same as other PUA's except that he does it in a way thats easier for the average guy to understand.

Have you check into Love Systems? They have some great interview series, and a book called Magic Bullets.
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